'' Now if your dude ain't acting right. You tell that dude, he got to go .

If that dude be claimin' that he broke. He got to go. '' - missy elliot .

To all the ladies out there.

Stop acting so laid back. Stop giving in. Stop being Miss. Nice already

Give yourself a break.

If you think the relationship is unhealthy. If you think that your guy is not appreciating you.

Fucking leave them. Show them, its not your lost.

Men just wants what they can't have. This is true.

( come on guys, stop denying. betol kan kan kaaaaaaaaan? )

And if you already have doubts on them. And even by confessing, does not work.

Or he does not make any effort to change and try his best to make it happen.

One word, Leave !

I'm not trying to be discouraging bout relationships here.

But i got sick and tired of girls, who complains bout their relationships to me.

Why complain? Why make it a big fuss? If you know you deserve better, then why still hold on?

selenger kan ? -.-

Please, stop blaming yourself too.

It's not you, it's him .

Nobody is perfect, but if you're with someone who is mistreating you.

You are with a person who is so far beneath you that you're pretty near perfect by comparison.

You girls, may ask yourself this at times.

And Blaaaa Blaaaaaaaaaa Blaaaaaaaaaaa.

But please try to understand that in your case,it's not you, it's him. Believe it or not.

It may have been some of your best qualities that got you into this situation.

Qualities such as, Being loyal, Honest, Trusting and Compassionate.

If your in an unhappy, unsatisfying relationship.

My ultimate advice is. . . ..

NUMBER ONE ! - WALK AWAY !!!

NUMBER TWO ! - BE WILLING TO HURT !!

NUMBER 3 - You must have a very strong foundation in order to do this. Like ME!! HA HA!

Well, as hard and as crazy as this may be to do.

If your just no longer happy, and always stressed up bout your guy.

Sometimes, the only solution is to say good-bye.

Look at it in a positive way, girls. Well, guys also can la. HaHa.

To some of my guy friends, If your girls are acting like one bitch, say good-bye !!

You guys know you can get any better girls you want. So why stick around?

Oh , my sister always mention this to me.

But, I'm not that sort. I believe in what goes around comes around.

Thats why, i let people hurt me. And i don't complain bout that.

Because i believe in god and i believe in his way of giving his people a lesson.

I let nature take it course. I don't seek revenge or hold grudges.

But that does not mean, whatever you did to me, is forgiven. ((:

So to those people,whom you think you have hurt me before, physically or mentally.

You may think that i have got over and put all of the shits behind me, but the truth is i've not.

HANYA TUHAN SAJA YANG TAHU .. heee

Okay i'm serious, be very very prepared for karma that is awaiting you. ( insert evil smile )

Anyway, like i've mentioned. Look it in a positive way.

There is always a chance that after you've left him.

He may realize that he is a complete idiot for behaving so poorly.

He will quite possibly do everything in his power to get you back.

Then, you can decide if you're willing to take him back .

Hope some how, these helps.

cheer up okay?

there is a soul mate for everyone. ((: